Wednesday, October 15, 2014

Ubuntu, A Philosophy for Our World in These Times

Ubuntu:What is it and Do I Want It?

We're NOT talking about the operating system! (In case you don't know: Ubuntu is a community developed, Linux-based operating system that is perfect for laptops, desktops and servers. It contains all the applications you need - a Web browser, presentation, document and spreadsheet software, instant messaging and other applications. )

Per Wikipedia, Ubuntu is essentially a philosophy originating in Southern Africa. Literally, it means "human-ness", a belief that we are all connected to all other humans. This philosophy encourages us to share with others, as well as care for others. What a wonderful belief is that? 

Archbishop Desmond Tutu offered a definition in a 1999 book:[9]
"A person with Ubuntu is open and available to others, affirming of others, does not feel threatened that others are able and good, based from a proper self-assurance that comes from knowing that he or she belongs in a greater whole and is diminished when others are humiliated or diminished, when others are tortured or oppressed."


Here's Nelson Mandela's description of UBUNTU:

Ubuntu - African Philosophy 
"The word 'Ubuntu' originates from one of the Bantu dialects of Africa, and is pronounced as uu-Boon-too. It is a traditional African philosophy that offers us an understanding of ourselves in relation with the world. According to Ubuntu, there exists a common bond between us all and it is through this bond, through our interaction with our fellow human beings, that we discover our own human qualities."

To me, in this time of turmoil throughout our world. We would all be better off to think in terms of UBUNTU. I don't say that it is easy, but I believe it would be worthwhile. Instead of seeing others in terms of what is "bad" about them, what makes them different from us, all the reasons we shouldn't like them, I think we should take the time to view it as a means to build a better world and in the process, we will grow as people. I think that is worth the extra effort!


Monday, October 6, 2014

Mindset Changes I Learned from Hurricane Irene

  1. Change will happen whether you like it or not.
  2. Sometimes little storms turn into big disasters!
  3. You have to learn acceptance or you'll go crazy.
  4. Being thankful for small things will begin to come naturally.
  5. Being open to help and learning to be thankful for everything is important.
  6. Everything costs more than you think it will going in.

Change will happen whether you like it or not.

In eastern North Carolina, we had become used to hurricanes and the damage they can wreak. Especially after my namesake, Fran,and then, Floyd. We had learned to prepare for the worst.

Sometimes little storms turn into big disasters!

The first reports mentioned a Cat 1 storm headed our way. Most natives were like myself and had hurricane supplies always ready during hurrican season. That being the case, we figured we were pretty much ready for a Cat 1, after all, that wasn't much bigger than a tropical storm!


Little did we know that Irene had other ideas! She came, stayed and made sure to make us remember her! Personally, I think it was really a Cat 2 storm, but it really doesn't matter. Call it what you will, I call it a life-changing event.
You have to learn acceptance or you'll go crazy.

Let me tell you how my dog reacted to the sight of my backyard, right after the storm. She did a 360 circle and barked at it all. I imagine she was saying that it didn't look right, trees were down everywhere. A disaster had truly come home! She learned quickly to accept it. I also learned acceptance but it took me awhile.

Some things in life are just not fair.


Was it fair that after knowing my backyard looked one way and seeing everything destroyed?It doesn't matter really, as it was that way. After 10 days without power, and losing those days of pay since the entire area was not destroyed just my part of the world. It was said that I should've been able to come to work. 10 days, no air conditioning, working outside at times and no shower? I don't think so!
Being thankful for small things will begin to come naturally.


Needless to say 10 days of eating vienna sausages, pork and beans, nabs (crackers and peanut butter) and the like-well, even fast food is a welcome thing. It was nice to eat hot food in a cool place. I would have enjoyed a fish sandwich even-and I don't eat those!

Taking a shower was nice, cutting the lights on and seeing at night without candles was great! Having a chance to be online and watch TV was wonderful. Didn't really matter what I did or watched. Anything made me happy!
Being open to help and learning to be thankful for everything is important.
If you're an independent person, as I am, learning to ask for and to accept help was difficult. With some turns my life has taken recently, it was a skill that has come in handy. I also was so very thankful that the damage I'd endured was not nearly as bad as some. Some folks homes had been destroyed. That put any trials I had around my house and yard into a much more manageable and acceptable place. Thankfulness began to come easily. I still start each day being thankful. No matter how hard things are, I'm alive and so, life is sweet!

Everything costs more than you think it will going into it.

I won't go into a great deal of detail of all the damage I had, some of which I'm still dealing with now. Let's just take the refrigerator. Yes, it was older, but it worked fine before Irene came through. I reached out to a local man who repaired appliances and he came and got it going. He'd been so swamped by other requests, that I was the last job he took. I was thankful. That repair did quite nicely until the beginning of this summer. I found salad items going bad faster than ever before. So, I did what any stubborn, independent lady would do. I tried to get it to work on my own. I played with the thermostat, I moved things around after I found the bottom shelves were cooler than those above. Unfortunately, that only works in the short term. Did I mention it is older? Well, I've learned to adjust and adapt to accommodate my old frig. We seem to have come to an understanding. I understand that my frig will work when it wants and I have learned to buy items that last a little longer. Also, I've learned to dispose of the items that go bad-no matter when that may be! Again, adaptation and acceptance is the lesson!

Oh, why did I say it costs more than you'd think? Well, to get a new frig would take a great deal of money I just don't have. Could I really afford to have that first frig full of stuff go bad? Not really. But, until I can buy a used frig, I'm dealing with it. You may say, why didn't I get someone else to come and repair it? I'd been there and done that with an old frig several years ago and found that it doesn't take long to have more money in the repairs than you might have spent getting another one. I'd learned THAT lesson! LOL



In summation, while I never asked Irene to come see me, she did. She is now forever indelibly etched in my memory. But, she did teach me a great many lessons that have come in handy in building my mental toughness! I am thankful for her visit. I am hopeful no big, bad storms come to visit again, but if they do, I've learned that I can deal with it.-but-only with God's help and the help of my friends!



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Friday, October 3, 2014

To Contact Me

I am listing several ways to contact me, but if you're reading my blog post. Well, I'd suggest leaving me a comment. Otherwise, I'm on Facebook all the time (personal).  Thanks for looking here to find out how to best contact me! If you're like me and on FB a lot, please send me a friend request and like my biz page. That is an easy way to keep in touch. Thanks again! Frances
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(It's also listed as Frances Wages)
Email:
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About Me

Hi ya'll! I'm Frances Wages! I love the water which is good because here in New Bern, it's all around us. I also love art, music, dance and just enjoying life. I live out in the country and I think it's great to have room for my dog to run, and room for me to work on my yard however lackluster I am at doing that. I love to travel-seeing new places is so exciting. I think life is as good as the way we look at it. If we look for good, you almost always can find it. I love learning and teaching all sorts of things. (That's me above this post, by the way.)
If you've been reading a post on "Feeling Better Every Day", then I thank you for reading. I welcome your comments! 
As you will see, I'm walking pretty consistently each day. I walk with my dog, Tippie, who's a rescued mixed border collie. Even though she's 8 years old, she thinks shes still a puppy. (Probably because I call her my puppygirl, and I don't feel my age, either.) Some days, I do walking and running since I'm transitioning to running. It's part of trying to get healthier, as that time clears my mind and  helps my fitness level, too! The fact that my dog and I both enjoy it is a plus!
I'm trying to get back in shape and this is part of it. Another part, will soon be kicking in. A friend of mine is setting me up with a system that has helped her drop many pounds and she's even making money, too. Now, that sounds great to me. I will be glad to help YOU as you become healthier both mentally and physically. If you want to find out about becoming wealthier, I'll help you with that, too!
Again, thanks for reading this far! I'm also adding a page that will show ways to connect with me. (Note: I am not on Skype all the time, but I'm glad to get on to talk with you. I find it drains my laptop too much to have it always on.) 

Wednesday, October 1, 2014

Why Walking is So Great For YOU!

Ok, so you want to get healthier. Walking seems like a good choice. After all, no real cost, unless you have to buy more comfortable shoes - and lots of benefits to enjoy!

Why Walking is So Great For YOU!
  1. No cost-you can walk anywhere and wear anything presentable
  2. You can walk by yourself, with your dog, with friends or make new friends in a walking group.
  3. The health benefits are essentially the same as running, only walking takes a little longer to do!
  4. It can be done inside or outside.
  5. All ages can enjoy it! (Always keep in mind there are those that can no longer walk that would give anything to go walking with you!)
My reasons:
I can spend time with my dog and see and hear nature all at the same time. I am gradually getting myself in better shape and can gradually transition into running later on. I can fit it into my schedule always and in general, it makes me feel better mentally and physically!

Equipment you may want to think about:
  • You should have comfortable clothes that match the weather.
  • You may need to invest in different shoes if you find your current shoes hurt your feet. If that is the case, I would go to an athletic shoe store. In my case, when I'm walking far enough and long enough, I just wear my running shoes. Just know that there are many shoes available specifically designed just for walking. At an athletic shoe store they can take into account YOUR feet and ensure that the shoes will not only fit but meet your needs. Maybe you will need shoes designed for tough outside elements, almost like hiking boots. Perhaps, you walk inside (as in a mall) and need shoes with a different type of support.
  • You may want to invest in a pedometer. There are tons of these available, but if you're just starting-or getting back into this as I am-I bought a very basic one. It will tell me the steps and distance I've walked. That is it. Doesn't cost much and it meets my needs. Later on, I may upgrade but my $5-8 investment works just fine for now!
Freebie to Keep Up With Your Steps!
If you want an easy way to track your steps to see if you're improving, here is a spreadsheet so you can simply put an “x” in the square as you walk it. (Example: 2100 steps, I'd put an “x” in the 1st and 2nd box. As the week progresses, you can check for consistency/improvement and get a feel for how far you've walked, step-wise, that week.




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